Well, I see I’m missing out on a lot down in San Francisco this week… Namely, the announcement of Apple’s new laptop. I don’t know about you, but that’s a must-have item for me! How have I done without it to date? (ps: Have a close look at the automated sentences that pop-up in the article, hehe!)

I *heart* the Onion.

I promised about a month ago to write about why I believe I’m still single…

It’s simple really: I’m self-sabotaging.

The ‘why’ is a bit harder to figure out, but after abundant reflection over the holidays — one of the few times of the year I really feel the full effects of being single — I have come to some conclusions and will hopefully be able to change some of the behaviour that is propelling me down the singlehood trail; A path I know I don’t really want to be on.

Here’s what I’ve figured out: Read the rest of this entry »

Welcome, Michele-fans! Continuing where the lovely Michele left off… Here’s your Weekend Meet n’ Greet!

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I deliberately didn’t make any plans for tonight, because I was craving alone time at home… But, now I’m regretting that decision.

I’m bored to tears! Well, that may be a bit exaggerated, but still — B.O.R.E.D.

Tomorrow is a busy day, so maybe I’ll get to bed early tonight. I haven’t gotten a really long sleep in weeks — Perhaps tonight I will?

What are you looking forward to, this weekend? Whatever you get up to, I hope it’s fun!

Happy New Year everyone! I hope you had a fabulous time celebrating the end of 2008, and the start of the new year…

I wish all of you a wonderful, happy, and prosperous 2009! I just know this is going to be a great year for us all!

Love,
T.

THREE road blocks! I had to drive through 3 distinct checks tonight… And for that, I’m totally thankful.

I just got home, and called Jason and Zoe to let them know I got here safely despite the snow falling (again).

Happy birthday Z! I hope you had a great birthday! I had a fabulous time tonight!

What did you get up to, to ring in the new year?

OMG, how cute is that???!!! Okay, I have a soft spot for large (smart) birds, what can I say?

I don’t do New Years resolutions — In fact, I don’t often find myself reflecting on the past year at New Years at all.

Maybe I’m weird?

I think that planning a bunch of life-altering changes all at once set people up for failure. I used to feel obligated because of the calendar date to make a large list of resolutions, but I’ve come to learn that it’s not healthy for me to do this. They rarely stick, when incorporated with other changes at the same time.

It doesn’t take the roll-over of a new year for me to look within me and figure out what needs to change — I do that most days. If anything, it’s my birthday that I find is my season of review… But, I never try to instigate a ton of changes all at once at that time either.

How about you? Do you make New Years resolutions? Do they usually work out?

Welcome, Michele-fans! Continuing where the lovely Michele left off… Here’s your new Weekend Meet n’ Greet!

Thank you to the wonderful people who play multiple times, each of you are guilty of spreading lots of comment cheer - hugs from me.

Spread the Comment Cheer!

How to play:

• – Leave a comment here that says hello.
• – Now, go visit the person who commented above you, leave a comment on their site that includes the oft-repeated tagline: Hello, Michele NetChick sent me.

Please play along.

Note to the first person commenting: simply say hello to me.

And YES, of course you are invited to play often. As you know, Michele always encouraged this, and so do I!

Christmas tree decorations have changed over the years but my favourites are still the old fashion vintage ornaments.

I remember staring into them for endless hours as they hung on our family Christmas tree and making mini wishes. I guess I felt as if these little sparkly spheres possessed magical powers.

You know what? I still think they do! Happy Boxing Day!
Laura

Ever wonder if an ornament is vintage or a good reproduction? Check out these tips from Wikipedia:

1. Look at the topper and hanger: gold, thin metal or plastic toppers & hangers mean it’s a newer piece, maybe a reproduction.
2. Original vintage ornaments used steel or a silver metal for tops. A small, metal, dull or slightly verdigris or rusty topper indicates this is an older ornament! Also look for a seam. If you see a seam down the sides, it’s most likely a reproduction, not an original handblown.
3. Some early Victorian ornaments from the 1800’s - early 1900’s are amazingly, still found at online auctions, even though they are really very old. Look for crinkly wire wrapped glass balls, or glass ornaments with NO SEAM…they are probably hand blown glass, not molded. Some used string or feathers as decoration. European (German, Polish, Austrian, Italian or French) handblown glass ornaments come in a variety of shapes: Houses, churches, fruits, nuts, hot air balloons, flowers, baskets with flowers, birds, etc. Especially popular are icicles, handblown and handpainted in rainbow colors, or metallic icy silver. Beautiful vintage Polish ornaments, round, teardrop or oval, are usually handpainted with intricate flowers, feathers and dots. The metal tops might say POLAND.
4. Wartime (1940’s) glass balls were painted, but not using metallic paints: you won’t see golds or silvers then. All metal was reserved for fabrication for the war. Look for primary coloured solids (red, yellow & blue) on clear glass, with dots, stripes or topped with snow. The metal cap might say MADE IN USA.
5. Vintage 1950’s glass ornaments come in a great variety of sizes and prints, with popular colors like reds, pinks, mossy greens and icy blues. Look for metallic paint (Mercury Glass), little frosty scenes (”stencil”) or starburst centers (”indents”) , and snow (”flocking”). A popular company at that time was Shiny Brite. They made jumbo sized glass balls down to teeny tiny mini glass balls the size of a pea, with string for hangers.

Phew, I’m going to need a vacation from socializing after this holiday season is over! The last few events/parties I’ve been at, I can see the look on most of the other faces too — We’re all tired.

But, I had a fabulous time… And, I only hope I’m this lucky with the opportunities to get out and have some fun and meet new people, next year.

Today is the last day of work for me until the 30th (a week off… YAY!) but I have plenty of personal stuff at home to catch up on. You see, I’m rolling out a new professional blog just after New Years, so I need to put some time into that.

What’s your plan for the rest of the holidays? Are you working any more between now and New Years? Have a great Tuesday, guys!

Chalk it up to the time of year… Or, the fact that I’m poised to go to 2 separate New Years celebrations, both containing primarily couples.

Either way, I re-activated my online dating profile tonight.

Yep, that sounds like a special-kind-of-kind of crazy I know. …Because it sounds crazy to me, too.

But, I live in Vancouver. And, despite being to over 2 dozen Christmas and Holiday gatherings over the past month, I can say, not one legitimate prospect made themselves known.

And, I can say, in *any* other city I’ve ever spent time in, I’ve never had this problem.

I know it’s not me, now.

So, “online dating profiles” will continue to be a part of my life, despite my every effort to eliminate them.

It’s all good.

Oh, and if your second cousin, once-removed needs a date to his New Years celebration (provided he is willing to join me to my pre-set parties that night) — Drop me a line. Better yet, tell him “to drop the Vancouverite persona, and drop me a line, himself”

Thanks for sending this along, Tonino

There was a man who worked for the Post Office whose job was to process all the mail that had illegible addresses. One day, a letter came addressed in a shaky handwriting to God with no actual address. He thought he should open it to see what it was about. The letter read:

Dear God,
I am an 83 year old widow, living on a very small pension. Yesterday someone stole my purse. It had $100 in it, which was all the money I had until my next pension payment. Next Sunday is Christmas, and I had invited two of my friends over for dinner. Without that money, I have nothing to buy food with, have no family to turn to, and you are my only hope. Can you please help me?
Sincerely,
Edna

The postal worker was touched. He showed the letter to all the other workers. Each one dug into his or her wallet and came up with a few dollars. By the time he made the rounds, he had collected $ 96, which they put into an envelope and sent to the woman. The rest of the day, all the workers felt a warm glow thinking of Edna and the dinner she would be able to share with her friends.

Christmas came and went. A few days later, another letter came from the same old lady to God. All the workers gathered around while the letter was opened. It read:

Dear God,
How can I ever thank you enough for what you did for me? Because of your gift of love, I was able to fix a glorious dinner for my friends. We had a very nice day and I told my friends of your wonderful gift.
By the way, there was $4 missing. I think it was those bastards at the Post Office.
Edna

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What are you looking forward to this wintery weekend?

Me? To be honest, I haven’t decided. First weekend in months where I do have plans, but have committed to none… It kind of feels good.

Fuji has a really cool promotion going on now, and is giving away some pretty cool gifts for the holiday season… Get on the F List and see if you can score some of the prizes:

The F List Scavenger Hunt – Fuji has hidden some photo clues around Vancouver and you can win a Fujifilm S100fs valued at over $700 – One was found today by Tyler Ingram… Will you get the other one?

The F List “Best & Worst Ever Gift Contest” – All you need to do is submit a photo of your gems and disasters from holidays past, and get your votes in to win! I know I have some pretty major doozy’s for gifts of holidays past to snap a few shots of, and I bet you do, too!

The F List Instant Win Contest - Click on the image above! You might just win instantly!

Fuji also has a holiday survival blog as well as the F List Gift Finder which gives out the best camera and non-camera gift depending on the person you plug into it!

…Finally, watch this blog for a future review of a Fuji S2000hd — I’ll be playing with it, taking some video, and posting the results here!

Photo by Tris Hussey

Despite the frightful weather in Vancouver, last night’s meetup was a total success… Thanks so much to everyone for braving the elements and sharing some Holiday Cheer with us all! A special thank-you goes out to my co-organizers who made this all possible: Shane Gibson, Steve Jagger, Monica Hamburg and Yam De La Pena! You guys were a ton of fun to plan this with!

I’m hoping to convince the four other meetups involved last night to combine again for another fun get-together mid-next year… I think it’s an excellent way to break out of the focused Meetups, and expand all of our social circles from time to time!

Were you there, last night?

I woke up very early this morning which I decided to do, after waking at 2am to snow falling fast and hard outside my window. The last thing I wanted was to have to drive into work with a bunch of lunatics that don’t know how to drive in the snow.

Mind you, I’ve only got all-seasons on my car, but at least I know how to drive in the stuff.

That said, the snow is still falling quite fast, and accumulating. I’m afraid of what the roads will be like when I leave the office today (albeit early as I was in early).

I’m also hoping that everyone will brave the weather and make it to the big bash tonight… It’s going to be a blast!

Don’t forget! Tomorrow is the big Holiday Meetup of all Meetups!

We’ve got about 300 people, combined, between all five meetups. It’s going to be a blast, and I hope to see you there! If you haven’t already, go and RSVP now, to ensure you are on the list. We’re at pretty close to capacity… Don’t miss this awesome opportunity to expand your network, connect, and have fun in a casual atmosphere.

There are door prizes valued up to $500.00 each, donated by Ceilis Irish Pub, Reachd, Ubertor, Blue Olive Photography, and DeSmogBlog.com as well as several other organizations! (Thanks to all of our sponsors of this unique event!)

Cost: Free (Sponsored by Ceilis) but bring something for the Food Bank if you can. (Collection Boxes will be there)

Schedule:

6:00 pm Arrive, get your free drink ticket and your Meetup Badge
6:30 pm 5 minute welcome and thanks to the sponsors
6:35 pm til late: Positive community building and networking anarchy!
8:00 pm prize draws and twitpic of the night award.

See you there!! Don’t forget to bring your Food Bank donation! HO! HO! HO!

It’s funny how things happen just when they should.

Tonight, I got home, made some pasta, cracked open a nice bottle of wine, and curled up under my big fuzzy blanket in front of the tv… And watched the latest Lipstick Jungle that I had cued for this evening.

Half way through the episode, a haunting song came on. The lyrics made tears well in my eyes. It was so beautiful, and the words were perfect…

I’m tired of all my sad stories, finished with my fear
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I close my eyes to remember
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Surrender
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Endings are beginnings…

I immediately paused the show, ran to grab my iPhone, and rewound to the beginning of the song. Unfortunately, the iPhone app, Shazam, didn’t recognize the artist.

I decided, though, that I HAD to know who that was. I didn’t recognize the voice at all… So, instead of watching the rest of the show, I went to trusty Google, and found a couple of other people who were inquiring about the artist as well. Moments later, I was downloading an absolutely inspired album by Sara Genn called BedMusic.

It’s only available as a digital download, and it rocks. I’ve emailed Sara to ask her if I can sample part of that song here, but if not, use the link above, and have a listen yourself. I’m betting you love her music as much as I do.

This find was absolutely perfect timing tonight. It’s amazing how inspiring and uplifting a song can be, hey?

Thanks Sara for lifting my heart tonight. You rock!

UPDATE: Sara got back to me tonight, and was pleased to share her sample here… So, please click the mp3 player above to hear a sample of the song. And, interestingly enough, Sara is on her way back to Vancouver (her hometown) tomorrow to share the holidays with her family… How crazy is that! Thanks for sharing your beautiful music with us all, Sara!

I am having one of those months again. Yep, not “day”, but “month”. It’s the 15th of December, and the cockles of my heart aren’t so warm.

Each morning, I find myself waking to a bad attitude. It feels like the sole purpose for my life right now is to do a good job at work. That’s it. And, although I truly enjoy my career, it’s clearly not enough for a life’s purpose. I mean, come on… It’s not like I’m finding a cure for cancer.

I don’t have a significant other to dream with (by choice… and maybe I’ll write another blog entry about why I am where I am right now in that department), I don’t have kids (again, by choice… I had my opportunity to go there in my marriage, and decided that kids didn’t fit into my life plan), I don’t have family that relies on me for anything (and, other than my new-found birth family, I don’t really have family) — So, where’s my motivation? Where do I gain the passion for living a great life?

I obviously need to gain some perspective again. I often find myself not fully enjoying the time that I spend with my friends, and those should be my bright moments — The moments to look forward to. Instead, I prefer time spent on my own. This is probably due to the fact that I’ve been sick lately, broken a molar in half (PAIN), and messed up my knee. Pain will drive anyone to feeling low, this I know.

And, it’s Christmas. I know that I’m feeling down because of the season… But, really, this is ridiculous. I’ve been feeling this way for weeks, and I’ve got to do something about it.

Everything in me says I should be thankful for all that I have — And I am. My life is rich and full. I just need to find out how to actually feel the joy again. I really miss it.

Your turn: When you lose the “joy”, how do you find it again?

Welcome, Michele-fans! Continuing where the lovely Michele left off… Here’s your new Weekend Meet n’ Greet!

Thank you to the wonderful people who play multiple times, each of you are guilty of spreading lots of comment cheer - hugs from me.

Spread the Comment Cheer!

The site of the day: the person above you and then you.

How to play:

• – Leave a comment here that says hello.
• – Now, go visit the person who commented above you, leave a comment on their site that includes the oft-repeated tagline: Hello, Michele NetChick sent me.

Please play along.

Note to the first person commenting: simply say hello to me.

And YES, of course you are invited to play often. As you know, Michele always encouraged this, and so do I!

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