My. Life. Is. Too. Quiet.
It’s official! I love living alone, but hate the lack of interaction with others when doing so. Perhaps it’s leftovers of three weeks being very sick, and being at home alone during most of that time, but it has to change. I’ve decided…
I keep myself very busy, socially, but I always feel like I’m missing out in the intimacy department these days. Maybe it’s time I focus on getting back into a relationship with someone — Perhaps that’s what I’m craving more than anything. It feels like I’m in the right headspace, and I’m actually enjoying my singlehood, but that singlehood is leaving a gaping hole in my life these days. I’m not in a hurry to jump in to a committed relationship with just anyone, but I’ve decided to elevate this issue to a higher importance now.
Okay, good… So it’s decided. After almost 3 months of being single (other than a 1.5 week hiatus) this chick is going to augment her happiness with someone special again. Now it’s just a matter of finding the right guy! I’m going to go about it quite differently this time.
And, hey! I’m open to dating suggestions, and to being fixed up… (hint, hint!)
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I’m in the same boat. Trying to work on it, but (I’m guessing) quite a few more years of pessimism to overcome. Wishing you the best, and Michele sent me.
Hey Tanya, caught you over at Michele’s place.
I share some of your singlehood woes but at this time in my life it is what I need for a while. I ended a long relationship not so far back and I am very, very cautiously ventruring into a “more than friends” status with someone. We’ll see how that turns out.
You’re gonna be fine.
I am so happy for you! Your attitude alone will carry you far, and ensures that you’ll be in just the right place when THE right person comes along. I predict only good things from here on out.
Thanks for visiting my site before. It was great to hear from you, as always. Michele sent me tonight, but I’ve become a closet reader of yours. You have a great style, and not just because you’re Canadian!
Hi Tanya! I was just reading your post (because, of course, Michele sent me), when Yahoo notified me that you’ve commented on my blog. How interesting – we’re visiting each other simutaniously!
I understand the tired of living alone thing. I was living alone when I was 30 and felt so old then. I’m about to turn 40 now and feel younger than I ever did then. A big part of it is that I met Champs. How, you ask – well, online quite by accident. We met in a chat room and started talking. The rest, as they say….
I’m not sure if I would give this as advise – just my story.
I like your blog and love the design. I’ll be back!
LOL – Thats the best anagram yet for your title!
Thats your problem… youre too intelligent. Guys dont like that.
Found that good relationships happen by accident and when you least expect them… deliberate searching nets bad results.
But its always fun to be on the hunt!
Good luck 2 ya.
Best of luck on the dating scene. Maybe you need a pet to keep you company in the mean time? Here via Michele tonight!
Three months? HA! I wish I could have been single for only three months. It’s been over a year for me, so I understand all too well what you mean.
Michele sent me.
I wouldn’t like to come home to an empty house neither and I’m addicted to cuddles….
Someday you’ll meet the right person and it will all fall in place in a second
here via michele’s
I feel for you sweetie. I was in your place for a long time.
Thanks for dropping by my blog
It will happen when you least expect it, but I think being open when the opportunity presents itself will help. I’m a bit far away for fix-ups, but I’ll send some good thoughts your way.
You should get a cat! That would fix 4 of your 5 listed “issues”, to a certain extent (and all 5 if you’re the gourmet pet food type). Provided you’re not allergic, that is.
Good luck, T
When the right one comes along it’ll be worth all the waiting.
Thanks for the thoughts guys! …And Mel, I love animals but I’m not home enough to be a good pet owner, and I’m not allowed pets in my place. Good idea, though.
Hi! Thanks for visiting me! If you need someone to cuddle with I’ll come cuddle, I love to cuddle…..Oh, Mom says nope, you gotta get your own kitty, sorry!
dontcha worry, things’ll be looking up for you soon. look out dating world, tanya’s back! here via michele.
Roommates help! Well, not with the cuddling & bed part, but I keep random non-special people around for that. Much less trouble that way.
Living alone bites. But get the right roommate, and it’s pretty rockin’.
Yep, Donna… I’ve definitely got to get some new cuddle partners! That would help alot
Melinama, I bet it changes really soon! I’m not pessimistic — I’ve had good luck meeting people in the past. Now, I just have to make the right choice this time!
here via michele’s..hang in there and try to enjoy what you have while you have it.
anagram? what anagram? help me please. i’m horrible at anagrams.
Ack! After your “cheer up” comment over at my place, I see this!
Something to look forward to, eh? Holy crap!
Love will find you, though, no doubt about it . . .
LOL!! Precisely what I blogged about today! Read my recent entry
It was a moment in time, and as a whole, I *love* being single. I just miss intimacy sometimes, but I know that will come later!
I know a really cool creative fun guy who lives in Seattle. But, perhaps I’m,.. I mean HE’s too far away.